BDSM Sex Dictionary

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Pangender

A pangender person identifies with all gender identities, or experiences their own gender identity as encompassing multiple gender identities. The term is used …

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Cis man

A cis man is a person who was assigned male at birth and who identifies as a man. The term describes the alignment between assigned sex and gender identity. It …

Bondage play

Bondage play refers to restraining a person in order to limit their freedom of movement. Depending on the context, different tools may be used, such as ropes, c…

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Sexual Orientation

Sexual orientation describes the gender or genders to which a person feels emotional, romantic, physical, and/or sexual attraction. It is part of a person’s ide…

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Microlabel

A microlabel is a specific self-description that describes a particular experience, identity, orientation or sense of gender in more detail. Microlabels often s…

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Advocate

A person who actively works against intolerance and discrimination, informs others about queer topics, or supports the equality of a particular group may be cal…

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Acevague

Acevague describes a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum. The term may be used by people whose experience of sexual attraction is wholly or partly connec…

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Y Position

In the Y position, the bound person is secured so that the arms and legs form a Y shape. Typically, the arms are tied together above the head and the legs are s…

A Tergo

A tergo is a term of Latin origin and literally means “from behind.” In a sexual context, a tergo refers to various sexual encounters or positions in which the …

Glory Hole

A glory hole is an opening in a wall through which a penis can be inserted for anonymous sexual contact. The term is mainly used in the context of sexual practi…