BDSM Sex Dictionary

Binding Games

Binding games describe BDSM practices in which specific body parts are deliberately bound or restrained using ropes, straps, or similar materials. The aim is us…

Temperature play

Temperature play in BDSM refers to the deliberate use of stimuli that differ significantly from normal body temperature. This may include ice, cooled or warmed …

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Sadism

Sadism refers to deriving pleasure, arousal, or gratification from inflicting pain, humiliation, or other forms of degradation on other people. In a BDSM contex…

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Two-Spirit

Two-Spirit is a term from some Indigenous cultures of North America for people whose gender or gender role is understood outside Western binary categories. The …

A Tergo

A tergo is a term of Latin origin and literally means “from behind.” In a sexual context, a tergo refers to various sexual encounters or positions in which the …

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Romantic experience

The term romantic experience can refer to past romantic relationships or to a person’s own experience of romantic attraction and intimacy. In some contexts, it …

Vanilla sex

Blümchensex refers to gentle, romantic or playfully affectionate sex. The focus is often on closeness, kissing, touching, cuddling and an overall careful approa…

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Trans Man

A trans man is a man who was not assigned male at birth and who identifies as male. The term describes a gender identity and does not automatically indicate bod…

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Privilege

Privileges are advantages, rights, or opportunities that certain people or groups automatically receive, or receive much more easily, because of their social po…

Fingering

Fingering refers to the sexual stimulation of the vulva, vagina, or anus with fingers or the hand. The term is used both for stimulation by another person and f…