BDSM Sex Dictionary

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Tomboy

A tomboy usually refers to a girl or a person assigned female at birth who behaves, dresses, or shows interests in ways more commonly associated with boys or ma…

E-Stim / TENS / Electrostimulation

TENS stands for transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation and is a medical electrotherapy used mainly for pain relief and muscle stimulation. In this context,…

Patent Leather, Leather, Latex

Patent leather, leather, and latex are materials commonly used in BDSM and fetish scenes. They are appreciated for their texture, appearance, and symbolic effec…

Doggy Style

Doggy style is a sex position in which one person is usually on all fours or bent forward in front of the other person. Depending on anatomy and execution, the …

Role play

In sexual role play, the people involved take on previously agreed roles in order to create erotic tension, fantasy, and new dynamics. The roles are often empha…

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Dominus

A dominus is a man who takes on dominant roles in a BDSM context and offers related services or role-play. The focus is usually on power dynamics, control, stag…

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Monosexuality

Monosexuality refers to a sexual orientation in which a person is sexually attracted to only one gender or gender identity. This includes, for example, heterose…

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Performativity

Performativity is a term from linguistics and describes the relationship between speech and action. An utterance is performative when spoken words do not merely…

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Human Rights Day

Human Rights Day is observed every year on 10 December. It marks the adoption of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights by the United Nations on 10 December …

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C1, C2, C3

C1, C2, and C3 refer to different forms of cuckolding relationships. The classification is used to distinguish different dynamics involving infidelity fantasies…