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Crash

A session that has usually failed for emotional reasons. Crashes mostly affect bottoms, but can also affect tops if they feel overwhelmed. It is also referred to as a failure.

A crash is a failed session.

One of the partners must, for whatever reason, end the session, which naturally leads to an immediate loss of atmosphere. A crash can be triggered by something as simple as the unexpected ringing of a mobile phone, but is most often caused by physical or psychological factors.

A crash is nothing to worry about and happens from time to time even in long-term relationships.

As not everyone is in the same mental and physical state every day, a crash can occur even in games that have not caused any problems in the past.

This usually happens to the passive player, who for some reason feels overwhelmed and has to stop playing. Less common, but equally possible, is a crash on the part of the active player, triggered, for example, by stress or distractions of any kind.

In the event of a crash, it often helps to discuss the reasons with one another if they are not obvious. Communication is always a good prerequisite for the success of future sessions.