ForceFem / Forced Feminization

In BDSM, feminization refers to an erotic role play in which a person takes on a femininely coded role through clothing, behavior, language, and appearance. It is a form of crossdressing and gender play. The term describes a role-play scenario and not a real gender identity; it does not imply medical or bodily change.

Depending on the agreement, feminization may be temporary or part of a longer-term scene or dynamic. Common elements include lingerie, makeup, shoes, feminine mannerisms, and a chosen scene name. Consent, clear boundaries, and respectful communication are essential to ensure that the role play does not turn into unwanted boundary violation.

Forced feminization is the dominant, submission-themed variant and should only take place within explicitly agreed BDSM play. Despite the term, it does not mean real coercion or actual violence, but a staged dynamic with заранее defined limits, a safeword or stop signal, and aftercare. Practices involving public humiliation, sexual degradation, or chastity require extra caution; real coercion or abuse scenarios must be clearly rejected.