Polyqueerplatonic

Polyqueerplatonic describes relationship structures in which a person has multiple queerplatonic relationships, or in which several people are connected with one another queerplatonically. Queerplatonic relationships are not necessarily romantic or sexual, but they can involve a high degree of emotional closeness, commitment, everyday importance, and mutual responsibility. The term is used especially in queer, aromantic, asexual, and polyamorous contexts, but it is not limited to these groups.

It is important to note that “queerplatonic” does not simply mean “friendship,” although there may be overlap. It refers to a relationship that may deliberately exist outside or alongside common categories such as friendship, partnership, romance, or sexuality. A polyqueerplatonic relationship can therefore have the same or a similar significance for those involved as a romantic polyamorous relationship, without needing to be romantic or sexual.

As with other committed relationship forms, clear agreements are essential: for example about expectations, time, closeness, exclusivity, jealousy, being public about the relationship, living arrangements, care, or sexual contact with other people. Because social terms and legal structures often do not represent such relationships well, open communication is especially helpful so that everyone involved understands and respects one another’s role, boundaries, and needs.